IT'S ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE!!

Posted by Unknown On Sunday, March 14, 2010 28 comments
Over 2.3million viewers have watched the following video clip recorded at Mayo Clinic that features Fran and Marlo Cowan playing an impromptu duet of the 1920's song "The Old Grey Bonnet" in the atrium of the Mayo Clinic. Marlo turned 90 in February and they have been married for SIXTY-TWO YEARS!!!



Incredible!!

It is not just the lengthy period of their marriage or their age but it is the exuberance, the joy, energy, love, harmony that this loving couple exude from the smiles on their faces, to their non-verbal communication to their music to their gait...

Please observe their body language closely while enjoying the lively music. It is obvious that they were just having a gala time doing what they do best together - making beautiful music and I am sure it is not just in musical notes but in many areas of their lives!

Even though the performance is not flawless in that there are slip-ups now and then, they did not glare at each other or frown or project any negative communication but they just went on without a care in the world. What mattered was their attitude - they love each other, love playing together, love making music and love entertaining through their music and hopefully touch lives with what they do.

Note that Fran even has the time to look up and smile at the crowd in the 20th and 30th second.

The first time they exchanged places, it is Fran who whispered instructions to Marlo in the 40th second and he voiced no objection but nodded and as they moved, note that Marlo gives her a loving pat on her derriere! How sweet!

And that's not all!!! In the 50th second, when they exchange places again, this time it is Fran who pats his butt!! And when they exchange places for the third time, both are wary of each other in a playful attitude. I am sure that when they were younger, they had loads of fun together :-) with lots of teasing, loving and just living life to the max.

The bounce in Marlo's stance as he moves in rhythm to the music is simply awesome considering his age. In the 1980's, I remember when I used to teach in the Yamaha ESFC (Electone School for Children) Course, it was so difficult to coax the kids to express themselves with their bodies at least moving a bit instead of sitting in front of the instrument like a statue! But here we have two senior citizens who are still obviously so in love with each other and you know what?

It is the attitude that makes the difference and I am sure that is why they have lived to such a ripe old age and have stayed married for SIXTY-TWO years of their lives with such awesome, joyful, energetic vibrant spirits!!! I hope you will enjoy the video clip.

CLICK HERE to watch the video.

There's more to this tale though...It is the significance of the piano. Music heals and does so much more than just entertain...Apparently, around this piano, the patients come together as an ad hoc family who are on a similar journey of healing and to share with others what has brought joy into their lives...

Tonight, may you be inspired to love, to really live life to the fullest and to remain as youthful as you can be...after all, it's all about attitude that makes the difference!

God bless you and have a good day/evening wherever you may be.

28 comments to IT'S ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE!!

  1. says:

    Anonymous Music speaks what cannot be expressed, soothes the mind and gives it rest, heals the heart and makes it whole, flows from heaven to the soul.

  1. says:

    QQ Life is long. We never know what lies ahead of us. There is no way of knowing what may happen. That's why it's of paramount importance that we have a faith and philosophy that can enable us to live out our lives with confidence and assurance.

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 8.27pm

    Your poignant, sensitive and beautiful message must be from a heart that lives and thrives on music :-)and all the blessings that it brings to this world. Thanks for visiting and for inspiring us...May you be blessed in your life over and over again as you bless others.

    Shalom

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear QQ

    Very true, QQ! Thanks for sharing such inspiring words. Life is a long journey but made worthwhile because of the people who are in our lives. Sure am glad you are in mine! :-)

    God bless you, QQ! Take care and have a great week!

    Kind regards

  1. says:

    Apa Nama The new music teacher at a high school had just organized a band, and the principal decided the band should make its debut before the bandmaster felt it was ready.

    So, on the big day he tapped the music stand for attention and nervously hissed at his musicians, "If you don't feel sure of your part, just pretend to play."

    Then he brought his baton down with a magnificent flourish - and the entire band gave forth with a crashing silence.

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Apa Nama

    Many thanks for that joke :-) which has a good message for all of us. Take care and thanks for sharing.

    Warmest regards

  1. says:

    Anonymous And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.

    - Abraham Lincoln

  1. says:

    Catherine Do-nothings can achieve nothing. This is an important truth. Let's do what needs to be done each day to advance. It's only through such continued steady efforts that the door to victory will be opened. There is no more noble or admirable way of life.

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 10.17pm

    Those words still ring true even after all these years...Thanks so much for sharing. Take care and God bless you.

    Best wishes

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Catherine

    I agree with you. It is only a purpose-driven life that helps us to live a life that is fulfilled. Thanks for sharing such inspiring words. Take care and have a lovely week. God bless!

    Shalom

  1. says:

    Anonymous Not surprisingly, music is the world's favourite pastime. In fact, music is deeply entrenched in many aspects of our life. Music is not just entertainment but the 'soundtrack of life'.
    To put that very succinctly, music makes the world go round.

  1. says:

    Village Boy A new mentality and attitude is what the Malaysian politicians badly need.
    Many of them are still behaving with a Third World mentality.

    We need politicians to act truly as leaders, and not like frogs. If they do not change their ways, I fear that the nation we all call home will one day be washed away into irrelevance.

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 10.38pm

    Many thanks for your comment shared from the depths of a heart that surely loves and appreciates music. I love your comment re 'the soundtrack of life'. How true. May your life be filled with music and may you also fill the lives of those around you with words of inspiration and strains of lovely tunes. God bless you.

    Best wishes

  1. says:

    Anonymous It is only a purpose-driven life that helps us to live a life that is fulfilled.

    Great! Well said.

    Have a blessed evening, sis.

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Village Boy

    Thank you for voicing your concern. I believe that the seeds of disintegration were sown years ago and these are wasting our nation away because of the mentality of some leaders who have not caught the bull by its horns to address key issues and to overcome serious problems. If such disturbing trends continue, we will be making history of a different sort. May God bless Malaysia and all of us. Take care and thanks for sharing from your sincere heart.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Anonymous If all our political leaders use their entire brains and hearts, and ask themselves honestly what they can and should really do for those who have elected them, your post may not be necessary altogether.

    What say you?

  1. says:

    Anonymous Malaysians are famous for their "tidak apa" attitude!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anonymous

    You are a very perceptive Malaysian. I deliberately put the title as a tie-in with my previous post and yu caught the subtle message :-). Well done!

    My response - some don't have much brains while some don't have hearts and the worst are those who lack both! We are living in challenging times and I truly worry about the examples being set for the younger generation and also what will go down in history books years from now.

    Thanks for being a caring Malaysian. God bless you and yours. Do keep in touch!

    Best wishes

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 11.08 pm

    Exactly!! I once blogged about it and called that post "Apa? Apa itu apathy?"

    I believe apathy is one of the greatest enemies of Malaysians. God help us all!

    Take care and thanks for sharing! Have a great week ahead and do keep in touch.


    Best wishes

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 10.53pm

    Thanks for the kind words! I am sorry for this late response to your comment that slipped through the cracks.

    May you be blessed this evening too and everyday of your life. Take care and do keep in touch.

    Shalom

  1. says:

    Apa Nama Dear Anon @ 11:08 PM

    Yes, Malaysians are famous for their "tidak apa" attitude!

    And Mahathir is famous for his favourite phrase "Apa nama?"

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Apa Nama

    Now I understand the significance of your nom de plume. Thanks for sharing! Take care and have a great week ahead.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Anonymous Enough of Mahathir, please!

    ~~ Susan Loone

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 11.48pm

    I couldn't agree more! Thanks for the reminder. Take care and have a good week.

    cheers

  1. says:

    Anonymous Some say our life is like a drama!
    Quite true, I suppose.
    Sometimes, we add dramas in our life just to feel more "alive". What a strange thing!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 11.50 pm

    Life is a paradox in many ways and there is so much that is beyond comprehension - perhaps that is what gives us the zest to carry on ...:-)

    Take care and thanks for sharing!

    Best wishes

  1. says:

    ahoo It's your attitude, not your aptitude, that will determine your altitude.

    Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.

    Absolutely right,.... how we handle our daily issue in life depends very much on our attitude.

    Think right, act right, it is what you think and do that makes you what you are. CHEERS !

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear ahoo

    Thanks so much for reading my post and for your encouraging and inspiring words!

    Take care and may God give you the right attitude for all circumstances.

    Take care and God bless!

    Shalom

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