SO YOU WANNA PLAY GAMES HUH?

Posted by Unknown On Sunday, October 25, 2009 2 comments
I guess we will never be able to understand how people function. Sometimes, citizens may seem to be so excited and enthusiastic about an issue, declaring their support one day and then condemning the movement on another or crossing over to the other side or remaining passive when the crunch comes. Also, how far do we know whether people are sincere or merely playing games. Such is the mystery of collective behaviour!

Collective behaviour is indeed complex as it is activity involving a large number of people, often spontaneous and sometimes controversial. With our constantly evolving society, more and more, it has become very difficult to study or even to understand!!!

Firstly, collective behavior is wide-ranging as it involves an incomprehensible range of human acts, thought and behavior. For example, how can we understand fads such as body piercing, rumors of the most bizarre types or almost insane mob behavior which dates back to the time of Julius Caesar or even what transpired on the road to Golgotha? That brings me to my next point.

Secondly, collective behavior is difficult to explain. While on one hand, a simple rumor can take cyber world by storm, another one could result in guffawed laughter or scorn by skeptical readers. So how one earth can we draw the line between what is a ‘credible’ rumor and what is not? How would we know? It is an impossible question that has no answers because each situation has different variables which by itself remain volatile and ever changing according to the whims and fancies of the receiver of the message. Such is the variety of human character.

Thirdly, many types of collective behavior are transitory. Some social institutions such as the family or educational institutions can be studied or understood more easily than others but other social phenomena such as rumors, fashion, riots etc tend to be transient in nature and so are difficult to study.

Most forms of human behavior cannot be understood :-) . While experts can predict tsunamis, earthquakes and other natural disasters, can they correctly study and predict human responses from people, especially when they are provoked? A good example would be voting behavior!!!

Why do people follow the crowd???? Why do they not stand up for what they believed in? Why is there the tendency to conform to common patterns of behavior and thought patterns of certain icons or opinion leaders? Is the inquiring mind not important anymore? To answer these questions, consider the categorization of crowds listed at the end of the post.

When I look at the political drama unfolding before me, I realize that many love to play games, mind games or political games and so on. Games are played outside adult awareness and they are our best attempt to get our needs met – although of course we don’t necessarily succeed.

Games are learned patterns of behaviour, and most people play a small number of favourite games with a range of different people and in varying intensities.

First Degree games are played in social circles generally lead to mild upsets not major traumas.
Second Degree games occur when the stakes may be higher. This usually occurs in more intimate circles, and ends up with an even greater negative payoff. Third Degree games involve tissue damage and may end up in the jail, hospital or morgue.

Politics can involve fourth degree games – where the outcomes involve whole network/communities, countries or even the world.

Games vary in the length of time that passes while they are being played. Some can take seconds or minutes while others take weeks months or even years. People play games for these reasons:
to structure time, to acquire strokes, to maintain the substitute feeling and the system of thinking, beliefs and actions that go with it, to confirm parental injunctions and further the life script, to maintain the person’s life position by “proving” that self/others are not OK, to provide a high level of stroke exchange while blocking intimacy and maintaining distance, to make people predictable.

If neuroscience and psychology can teach us anything about politics, it’s that we should approach the sport with a sense of irony and an appreciation for contingency. Yes, crucial issues are at stake – let’s not forget that – but the political process is rarely about these issues. Instead, it’s about reaffirming an irrational identity and tickling those gut feelings that operate at a very subterranean level.

We shouldn’t be surprised when every transition in politics – even that between two or three political personalities committed to some vague post-partisan future – veers into identity politics and the culture war…its apparent in the emerging blog war. I can’t help but watch these conventions through the lens of Jane Goodall, as a gathering of social primates affirming their role within the tribe. Politics is an emotional sport, defined by teams with visceral identities, and not some rational arena in which issues and analysis take center stage. Of course politics always degenerates into some version of Us versus Them: that’s just human nature.

Politics is a primate sport. We’re used to marveling over the fact that the taller man usually wins, that commanding, alpha-male jock toughness is de rigeur for successful political postings. Sometimes even political females’ appeal drives home the perhaps inevitable but nevertheless regrettable fact that female political success is at some level going to be grounded in primate appeal, too. But even if it does not, these alpha-male primates keep attacking the threatening male as well as target the females whom they perceive as showing allegiance to the threatening male.

Some say that women and men behave like monkeys when it comes to political issues. We can even learn from them about ourselves. Important research is being conducted nowadays on that topic. But pay attention: it seems it’s not the taller or the stronger ape who always wins, but the one who succeeds in mastering the social relations and building a larger net of allies.

James Scott wrote about the Malay peasantry in his thesis on”Weapons of the weak”…but that was then. Brechtian modes of resistance in everyday life in order to appreciate the full range of possibilities and limitations under conditions of inequality are things of the past, at least in Malaysia, so we think and talk. Many, many Malay, Indian, Chinese and all poor of every ethnic group now know about weapons of the strong….they know it because we have moved into the 21st century, whence political criminals like the Milosovics, the Charles Tailors, the Pinochets, the Marcos’ and the Radavan Karadicks get hounded by a global citizenry no matter how long it takes…they will be brought to account for their actions, the money they stole and place in so-called safe banks will be returned, the people they unjustly tortured or killed will have their voices heard…even if it is done posthumously…

But the politics of patriarchal, primitive, primate politics in Malaysia is having its last fling…at least I hope so…it will help them if they can learn that they have to change and embrace the reality…

So, I learnt, its not you or me who is confused of these games, it’s the monkey politicians who are trying to do a tightrope between maintaining the primate politics and giving the appearance of doing politics and policing in 21st century Malaysia and against those who are breaking ranks with the alpha-male.

In the book, “The Ascent of Man” [sic], the author says: ‘Knowledge is not a loose-leaf notebook of facts. Above all it is a responsibility for the integrity of what we are, primarily of what we are as ethical creatures. You cannot possibly maintain that informed integrity if you let other people run the world for you while you yourself continue to live out of a rag bag of morals that come from past beliefs. That is really crucial today’.

There are all manner of political, religious, and social movements, which impose their view of reality, their version of the truth, the goal of which is to control and maintain an ever-increasing base of followers. Their proselytizing campaigns, for instance, are designed to play on the common fears of the masses – they know people are afraid and they offer a solution designed to allay those fears. Well-known examples of this kind were the structures in Germany during the Nazi years, in Eastern Europe under the Soviets, Iran under Khomeini, and Kampuchea under Pol Pot. There are many other examples including religious fundamentalist movements. Some movement leaders define an enemy who must be destroyed, an enemy defined as the source of primordial evil. Other movement leaders see the evil in ideas and life-styles. People are offered oversimplified answers that dispel fear created by doubt and uncertainty created by internal psychological conflict and external social forces. This has become particularly dangerous today because of sophisticated communication technology and increasing expertise of the psycho-social sciences.

But this is a crucial point to remember in crowd behaviour. In any kind of social system, the largest group of players is the bystanders. By definition, they do not get actively involved, especially in emergency situations. Where one or more persons are in danger, bystanders could, by taking some form of action, affect the outcome of the situation even if they were not able to avert it. In any emergency, whether that threatening the life of one person or many, bystanders have great power if they choose to exert it because they are by far the largest group in any social system. By not intervening, they give tacit approval to the misuse of power they are witnessing. According to folk wisdom, we have to be part of the problem or part of the solution…and not to decide is to decide.

At the end of the day, it is fear that makes for bystanders. And its not just fear of the powers that be but also fear schooled by family, friends, teachers, religious preachers, etc. We need to empathize with bystanders. But there is hope for change – if bystanders can change their fearful behaviour, they can affect change in the social system that has caused them their fear in the first place.

In a nutshell, the society in which we live is one that is dynamic because it has the power to shape individual choices. Yet, at times the familiar seems strange and the strange seems familiar!!! We live our lives in terms of the choices that we make and many factors influence those choices till we may not know why we made that choice in the first place!! Put that together collectively – then you may begin to see the real mystery of collective behavior and how it is so difficult to understand society, people and even ourselves.

Oh, the games people play!!!!!

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* My apologies for this very long post. feel it is important to understand the psychology of mom behaviour because it affects each of us ...thanks for reading!!! Do leave a comment if you like. Thanks and have a nice day!

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Herbert Blumer (1969) identified four categories of crowds:

1. Casual crowd – a loose collection of people who interact little, if at all. Examples would be the beach crowd or witnesses of a road accident who have little awareness of one another.
2. Conventional crowd – the result of deliberate planning such as an auction or a lecture or a funeral. In such a situation, interaction would conform to norms that are appropriate to the situation.
3. Expressive Crowd – A good example would be the audience of a religious revival meeting or concert or New Year Eve’s celebration. Excitement is the main reason why people join expressive crowds because of the feeling of exhilaration involved.
4. Acting Crowd – collectively motivated by an intense, single-minded purpose. Such crowds are ignited by very powerful emotions which can reach a feverish intensity and sometimes erupt into mob violence.

Another category can be added to Blumer’s list - protest crowds such as those who stage strikes, boycotts, sit-ins and marches for political purposes. Other theories you might want to consider include:

1. Contagion Theory formulated by Gustave Le Bon – how crowds exert a hypnotic influence over their members.
2. Convergence Theory which argues “that that people who wish to act in a certain way come together to form crowds”.
3. Emergent-Norm Theory – developed by Ralph Turner and Lewis Killian (1993). They concluded that social behavior is never entirely predictable; but if similar interests draw people together, distinctive patterns of behavior may emerge in the crowd.

For further reading:

Here are some Wiki links that may introduce these writers and their ideas:

Wiki on Vance Packard

Wiki on Mancur Olsen

Wiki on Eric Berne

Games People Play – Eric Berne


2 comments to SO YOU WANNA PLAY GAMES HUH?

  1. says:

    Vijay Kumar Murugavell As they say life is a paradox with no absolutes, this apparently applies to politics as well.

    Diversity will abound in any given social setting, there will be those who set the pace, those who follow and those who are apathetic.

    Malaysian politics is largely based on politics of fear because the majority are not discerning of the issues at hand , hence are easily manipulated by those who hunger for political power.There is also lack of dialogue , each side seems to be preaching to the already converted. In my opinion it bis difficult for the far left and far right to iron out issues, one possibility is for the center left and center right to start opening channels of dialogue, then MAYBE the ripples from the center of the pond will reach out.

    There is a group of us that gather in KL that I am a part of, it comprises , pakatan supporters , UMNO members, neutral, NGO's etc. We sit down in a civil manner about twice a month and exchange views on issues.Expectedly we disagree on many issues , but at least each time we come back with an understanding on why the other side thinks the way they do.

    So far in my encounters with monkeys, they take peanuts and dont give back, if fact they menacingly demand some more.

    We are on an airplane that is on autopilot, with a monkey pretending that it is piloting, we are afraid what will happen if autopilot fails, but the monkey insists that it has a "track record " of piloting that plane, and snarls nastily at any passenger with at least amateur pilots training offers to take over the controls, and slightly more than half the passengers agree with the monkey

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Vijay, Thanks for your brilliant and most appropriate response to my post. Really appreciate your nuggets of wisdom. I hope to start something like what you have going in KL. Such an exchange of ideas is vital to understand the climate for the moment. Sitting behind a pc screen does not allow one to be really engaged with the mind of the layman. A friend has already volunteered to start sth like Plato's Academy - hopefully something will work out.

    Your take on primate politics is really spot on. I hope to meet you one day and shake your hand and tell you face to face that I hope you will be a political leader one day. Yup, brother - you have what it takes to make an excellent leader! Take care and thanks for sharing!
    Cheers

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