Reflections of A Sentimental Mom

Posted by Unknown On Thursday, November 18, 2010 11 comments
Frankly, if I could live my life again, I would want to be in the performing arts either as a singer or as a musician. I did harbor thoughts of being a writer but never thought too much of my writing skills because I was completely outclasses by my course mates such as Ho Kay Tat, Subhadra Devan and many other fantastic writers. I never wanted to be in the education line and could not believe it when I ended up teaching and lecturing for the greater part of my life.



This evening, I thought I'd write about my musical journey from the time I was 11 for my boys and grandchildren to remember...I paid 60RM or so for my first Kapok guitar learned how to play the guitar on my own using the Campus Song Book that I bought (which I still have till today). The first songs I played on my guitar were Butterfly and Beautiful Sunday.

I took a long time to find the youtube clips but finally found it. Those baby boomers like me will have fond memories of these songs...

Butterfly by Danyel Gerard

Beautiful Sunday by Daniel Boone

House of the Rising Sun by The Animals

The list is endless but I think you can get the picture. Contrary to what some of you might think, I was definitely NOT the studious type of student in my younger days. Days were spent playing the guitar and singing and nights were spent reading novel after novel , MAD magazines, comics and any reading material including newspapers!

By the time I was in Form 3, I had become quite a skilled guitarist and hung out with many famous guitarists and musicians to see what I could learn from them. Needless to say, I was the ONLY female guitarist. Some of them have become renowned professionals in their own right including Goh Boon Hoe (who produces for Amy Mastura), Paul Augustin, Ronnie and a couple of others.

By the time I finished my fifth form, I had formed a few singing groups and we would go around singing, taking part in competitions during my sixth form days. Instead of hitting the books, I was hitting the guitar :-)...Most definitely, Rev. David Loo was and still is, a strong influence on my musical taste, inclination and skills.

One of the groups I formed was Love's Dimension and the members were:

Rev. Moses Lee (Jelutong Methodist Church)
Tan Kok Kee
James Tan
the late Yee Chin Kong
Fong Soo Chew
Oon Soon Hwa
Michelle Lee (wife of Rev. Raphael Samuel), missionary in Bolivia
Yours truly

The other group I formed was The Living Harmony which comprised Rev. Koe Choon Huan, Rev. Moses Lee, Hock Guan, Thean Heng, Michelle, Sook Cheng and yours truly. By then, our signature song was "I Wish We'd All Been Ready" which we sang in 8-part harmony with many overlapping parts arranged by me :-). The introduction we sang was exactly like the version sung by Cliff Richard.

We won talent-time competitions and made a name for ourselves but alas, the time came for us to go our separate ways to university.

And that opened a whole new dimension for me!

By the time I was in second year at university, I organized a musical each year. In 1980, I conducted "Make It Clear" and Colin Kirton of Footstool Players was the pianist with Phang Sin Nan on bass, Edwin on drums. Amongst the other singers then were Dorothy Teoh (The Edge), Datin P.N.Y (wife of Datuk Idris Jala), Dr. Lim Eng Leong, Lim Gaik Bee, Philip Yeoh, Christopher, Hock Kee, Judy Too, Albert Skadiang and may others (if you guys are reading this...please contact me cos I would love to hear from you). Those were really awesome days when we would be singing and rehearsing in the lecture theatre till close to midnight making good music, bonding and just having a very musical time!

The following year, I conducted "Sonlife" with a bigger team this time. Colin Kirton and the original team were still singing. Then in my final year, I did "Pursuit" with a different team of singers from Chi Alpha.

After I graduated, I continued my musical pursuits in church and took part in many musicals and cantatas - too many to list. But the most memorable one was "Joseph The Dreamer" which I conducted in 1987 with Ms Margaret Teoh in charge of the Drama Section with the assistance of Noreen Khoo, my cousin. It was such a grand affair that was staged for two nights at Dewan Sri Pinang with a cast of over 70 from various churches. Some of those who took part included Leong Dee Yinn, Philip Yeoh, Marcel Lee, Eric Foo, Jeffrey Choy, Ricky Lew, Tan Ah Leong and many others. That was indeed an unforgettable experience and it is a real pity that the video recording did not turn out well.

The 1990's saw me venturing into playing the synthesizer and composing. My guitar days were over and it was a learning process to master programming, doing back-up singing and also venturing into acapella singing. By 2000, one of my songs was recorded and sung by Charles Curtis. That was a high point for me and then there was the accident.

I retired from playing the keyboard or singing in 2002 when I had my spinal injury. It was during the time when I was bedridden that I came up with my most beautiful musical compositions and poetry. After that, I stopped playing publicly and even at home, I seldom play the piano except when my older boy is back.

And why? It is because both my boys have overtaken me in their musical skills.

My parents never encouraged me to learn music. In fact, they objected violently. I bought my guitar on my own, and even my first electone organ and piano on my own when I was a student. Then, I earned pocket money after fifth form by giving tuition here and there. When I had my kids, I resolved to let my boys have what I did not have - formal music lessons.

I play the piano by ear and do jazz and other genres but not rock. Today, I wish I had had proper lessons to hone the gift of music that God has given me when I was younger but am glad that my boys have the opportunity to learn a few instruments. It has been a very expensive journey but that is worth it for both of them are adept and skilful in the violin and piano under the guidance of Ms Ooi Chean Hong (the older sister of Datuk Ooi Chean See, former Resident Conductor for MPO) for violin and Miss Catherine Lee for piano. I started off my older boy on the guitar but in a few months, he was better than me - a piece of cake for him with his musical skills and perfect pitch.

It was difficult for me to let my older boy pursue music at university but I am glad I gave up my small ambitions for him to be a lawyer or accountant. He told me calmly one day, "Mom, don't force me to live out your dreams. Let me chase my own dreams." Believe me, I was stunned beyond words when the realization hit me. And I let go and let him chase his dreams.

Three years down the road, I can see he is excelling and enjoying what he loves to do - music. And as I look at his band and his acapella group, I just cannot believe that hey - that was what I used to do when I was young and would do again if I could turn the clock back.

I have been so over the top with excitement and anticipation. Tomorrow, he will battle out with this bandmates from Juanophobia and Of Feathers and Chapters in the Polo Rocks Grand Final at The Curve. For him to make it to the Top 10 is already an achievement. I am so proud of him and am bursting with joy and pride. I just hope and pray for the best. If you are around The Curve, do give them your kind support. Take care and thanks for reading the reflections of a sentimental mom.

11 comments to Reflections of A Sentimental Mom

  1. says:

    Captain Obvious Dear masterwordsmith,

    Ah, guitar..... Hark back some of my times of yore. It was during my early on guitar session when my instructor wanted me to perform to see how much I’ve improve, and so I played. Soon after I’ve done with it.....

    Instructor : You are so Ji.....
    Me : Ji.....mi Hendrix?
    Instructor : Ji..... Ji.....
    Me : Ji.....mmy Page??
    Instructor : JI BAI!!! (Pardon me language)

    Ahem, how nostalgic it was hahaha...

    Cheers!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Captain Obvious

    Hey - long time no hear!! Thanks for sharing this nostalgic blast to the past hehehe...Would love to hear you play one day!

    Take care and thanks for the smiles. Do keep in touch!

    Cheers!

  1. says:

    The Phoenix Foundation MWS!
    Well if u must know:
    in 1965,in MBSKL, a very special friend of mine , we used to call him Malai Kwai, went into Petaling Street & bought me a Kawai Guitar for the princiley sum of $32/-. and giving it to me, he said BRO! I cannot sing but please sing for all of us!!!
    Then said MalaiKwai was Lim Kok Thay,
    Today he is Tan Sri Lim Kok Thay.
    And then when a certain young lady{malay} came into our lives in our sixth form our lives changed.
    Her name : Azean Irrawadhy!
    She was a beauty then , she still is.

    So MWS,
    my life has also been touched by the angles!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Mr Jeya

    WOW!!! You certainly have friends in high and glittering places!

    I must meet you one day and hear you belt Elvis or Cliff Richard numbers.

    Thanks for sharing. Btw, I was also from MBS ...but in Penang...:-)

    Take care and have a restful evening.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    michael You are indeed a gifted person and a blessed mother with a wonderful family. I'm impressed and happy for you.

    Take care and god bless.

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Michael

    Thanks for the kind comment and encouragement. I really appreciate your uplifting words and indeed, I am blessed. It was not an easy journey but it is a much smoother one now :-).

    Take care and have a blessed weekend.

    Shalom

  1. says:

    Captain Obvious Dear masterwordsmith,

    'Hey - long time no hear!!'
    Hey - because long time no write!!! ;)

    'Would love to hear you play one day!'
    How courageous of you! I afraid that one day will be a day for you to be afraid of. And I afraid my gallant performance is exactly what to be afraid for. Are you not afraid of the eminent assault on your auditory sensor? Afraid not you are??? What the..... well then, Godspeed!!! :)

    Take care and do have a lovely weekends

    Cheers!

  1. says:

    UP41 Yesterday, When I was young - Shirley Bassy

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Captain Obvious

    Thanks for brightening my blog with your witty reply! Ah my friend, do not be modest...You could be the next Jimi Hendrix or Eric Clapton of Malaysia. But I do hope I will get to meet you one day. If that day comes, I am sure it will be one filled with much laughter!

    And thanks - I did have a great weekend in KL.

    Do keep in touch! Wishing you a fantastic week ahead.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear UP41

    Thanks!! I love Shirley Bassey's voice and songs. Been a long time since I heard that one. Take care and thanks for sharing.

    Do keep in touch!

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Captain Obvious Dear masterwordsmith,

    Tsk, you found out! Ahem, well my friend, these days it is difficult to be modest when someone know you are the best..... Well, yes, of course, that day certainly will fill with laughter and joy, no doubt about it! Why? Now tell me, how is being a politician different from being a clown? Quite simple, a clown like me does not go on about beg, grumble, and whine at you hahaha... ;)

    Until then, take care!

    Cheers!

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