WHEN THINGS SEEM TO FALL APART, GO PLACIDLY...

Posted by Unknown On Sunday, February 28, 2010 44 comments

Life is not an easy journey and it requires sheer grit, perseverance, patience and the right attitude to last the journey. Rather than succumbing to the pessimism of circumstances, we should find strength from above and within us, even from each other that we can last the journey to realize our dreams. Often times, I derive much inspiration and satisfaction by reading inspirational poems or listening to classical/instrumental music that can surely soothe my nerves. One of them would be Desiderata (in Latin, it means "things desired"), written by Max Ehrmann.



Few know that this man who wrote such beautiful poetry actually suffered many disappointments in life. But he remained steadfast and contented towards the end of his life.

Max Ehrmann (1872 – 1945) was born in Terre Haute, Indiana to a German family. He received two degrees, in English at De Pauww University and in philosophy from Harvard. It was during these years that he decided not to become rich but to write beautiful books instead.

Ehrmann published six books but could not make a living out of these works. So for the next two years he went on to be an attorney. After a frustrating career, he joined his family's meat packing business and had also joined the clothing industry.

Considered a national treasure, Max Ehrmann married only months before his death. Eventually it was his widow who published some of his books and wrote his biography.

His most famous poems are Desiderata and A Prayer. Unfortunately, Desiderata only went famous after his death. I am sure many of you are familiar with this poem, but be inspired once again by the wisdom, strength and beauty of the words written by a man who lived by what he wrote.

DESIDERATA

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.

Written by Max Ehrmann

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TO TRUST AGAIN?

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“Boys , do you know what is the most important thing to have as an adult?” came this seemingly innocuous question from our school master. Some said money, others cheekily replied girlfriends.



When no right answer was forthcoming and the pupils had exhausted all clues, “the most important thing to have as an adult is trust, because if you don’t have trust you don’t have anything” came the reply to a hushed classroom.

This lesson in life has been with me since then, it taunts me when I regress and barks at me when I transgress.

Trust is an all encompassing word. This simple word that is sometimes used frivolously by some ,shapes our life and how we live it. Without trust, there is no credibility and no reliability.

A doctor will lose his patients and a banker will lose his clients if trust is missing.

To be trustworthy means to have the salient qualities of honesty and integrity, they are inseparable and the bedrock of how we must shape our lives around.

Trust holds a great significance to the man on the street and more so to the people in positions of power.Without trust, everything breaks down. Nobody will believe what is written in the papers, rumours become truth, fact becomes fiction and it fosters the blossoming of a generation of skeptics , hard to please and difficult to convince- sound familiar?

Criminals to even boy scouts follow their own code of conduct of which trust forms the crux of their credo.Imagine that.Then we ask ourselves ,do politicians and those in positions of power have a similar code of conduct too? If so, then why are there so many disturbing events of late?

What politicians don’t understand is that when one crucial issue is swept under the rug, and covered up,this inevitably starts the fall off the precipice.And it becomes ever harder to get back up on to the straight and narrow road .Try convincing a whole population of skeptics!

Rumours,facts,incidents or issues when they crop up should be investigated without fear or favour.The people have to be kept in the loop, no stone must be kept unturned.Why? because of the all important word, TRUST. A very simple precept but surprisingly difficult for some.

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Trust, so difficult to attain yet so easy to lose. A precious lesson in life learnt in a chalk filled classroom on a hot steamy afternoon and one I will carry for the rest of my life.

I just wish more people would.

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Thanks! Have a nice day.


THE PERFECT MAN AND THE PERFECT WOMAN

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There was a perfect man who met a perfect woman. After a perfect courtship, they had a perfect wedding. Their life together was, of course, perfect. One snowy, stormy Christmas Eve, this perfect couple was driving their perfect car along a winding road, when they noticed someone at the side of the roadside in distress. Being the perfect couple, they stopped to help. There stood Santa Claus with a huge bundle of toys. Not wanting to disappoint any children on the eve of Christmas, the perfect couple loaded Santa and his toys into their vehicle. Soon they were driving along delivering the toys. Unfortunately, the driving conditions deteriorated and the perfect couple and Santa Claus had an accident.



Only one of them survived the accident. Who was the survivor?

The perfect woman.


She's the only one that really existed in the first place.

Everyone knows there is no Santa Claus and there is no such thing as a perfect man...

Women, stop reading here.

So, if there is no perfect man and no Santa Claus, the perfect woman must have been driving. This explains why there was a car accident.

(By the way if you're a woman, and you're reading this...this brings up another point....women never listen either.......)

:-) Please leave a comment if you wish to share your thoughts. Thanks! Have a lovely day!


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