Please read the following article by Kathy Thompson with a pinch of salt. I posted it because it is quite interesting and do not wish to stir hornet's nest by saying that everyone fits into the categories mentioned :-). Happy reading!
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Would you like to communicate better and improve your relationships? Would you like to be popular, successful, and get along with everyone? Here are eight unique success secrets to help you.
Let’s see if you recognize any of these.
Why is Nancy so popular? She is FRIENDLY. No one is a stranger to her. She is so easy-going, informal, fun. She makes it look so easy. Now look closer; her EYEBROWS ARE SET LOW OVER HER EYES.
What should you do around people like her? Expect and enjoy their informal attitude. Warn them about protocol. Let them sell. Put them in greeter, host, or hostess positions.
Joe is always so quiet, aloof, reserved, formal, and usuallystays at his desk. He doesn’t talk to many people. He is SELECTIVE about everything; belongings and friends. Look closer; notice how HIGH THE EYEBROWS ARE PLACED ABOVE THE EYES.
What should you do about people like him? Mind your manners. Be on your best behavior. Use courtesies. Ask permission before touching personal belongings. Use titles where they apply.
Don’t call them by their first name, unless they call you by yours. Once you are accepted by them, they accept you wholeheartedly. Their style is all or nothing.
Sam is a nagger, faultfinder, always CRITIZING. No one seems to like him. Nothing seems to get passed him. He sees everything. Look closer; HIS EYES SLANT DOWN.
What should you do around people like him? Get their advice when you need it. Don’t be hurt by unsolicited criticism. It has nothing to do with whether they like you or not. Underneath, they have a heart of gold. Try to take care of things that involve them in order to avoid criticism.
Betty is so nice all the time, easy to get long with. She is NOT CRITICAL at all. But she does miss out on things. Look closer; HER EYES SLANT UP.
What should you do around people like her? Don’t trust their advice too much. Enjoy their friendships. Include them in social gatherings.
Karen is always giving. She has such an out pouring nature. She let Ted use her car the other night. And she lent Lisa $10 for lunch. She is very GENEROUS. Look closer; notice HOW FULL HER LIPS ARE.
What should you do around people like her? Expect the conversation or action to take longer. Know you are more liable to get what you ask for. Feel free to ask for help or favors.
Frank is TIGHT. He gets right to the point and gets things done. He doesn’t waste anything; talk, gestures, time, materials. I like him on my team. HIS LIPS ARE THIN.
What should you do around people like him? Don’t irritate them by being verbose. Don’t be hurt by their shortness or silence. Anticipate brevity and efficiency.
Why don’t Patty and Rick get along? Rick is usually wondering why Patty can’t get to work on time, and has to remind her of everything. Patty is very TOLERANT, a good sport, but she does
procrastinate. Rick really takes advantage of her. And she’s always so good-natured about it. Look closer; see HER EYES ARE FAR APART.
What should you and Rick do around her? Expect tardiness and easy-going performance. Set deadlines and give reminders. Enjoy their good nature, easy to please company.
Rick on the other hand is very IMPATIENT, complains a lot, impossible to please, a perfectionist. He gets upset so easily. HIS EYES ARE VERY CLOSE TOGETHER.
What should you do around someone like him? Be careful of your performance and statements. Be on time. Expect indignation and over-reaction. Trust them with things that have to be done
right, and put them in a supervisory position, if possible.
Do you recognize any of these personality traits in yourself or anyone you know?
Knowing the personality behind the face, you can approach each person according to their personality, improve your communications, relationships, and succeed in life.
Writer, Speaker, Coach, Kathy Thompson, has been studying Face Reading for over 10 years. She is available to help you succeed in life and business using Face Reading. Her exclusive system, “How To Read Faces & Profit” is now available to help you profit
and succeed in every situation you are in. Complete details are at http://www.faceuptoit-youcan.com/profits.html
Or contact Kathy at; writing4u@faceuptoit-youcan.com
Author's Bio
With 8 years of teaching and 15 years in Toastmasters, Kathy Thompson really enjoys the platform. She has a B. S. in
Business Communications and has taught her programs around the country at various businesses and Adult Education Centers.
Writing has been a passion all her life, and she loves to write non-fiction and fiction. Her works have been published on-line and off.
She writes and speaks about Health, Personal Communications (writing & speaking), and her unique specialty of "Face Reading" has brought her plenty of media attention.
Anonymous Oh I see.. *rushes off to find a mirror!*
BTW, did you find out why your internet connection was down? If you don't, then it is worth calling streamyx up (quoting your complaint number - I think this is what it is called) and asking them what the problem was.