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You can feel it, something just doesn't feel right. It can happen at any time, you could be having tea with a friend, or in a meeting with your co-workers but you definitely get the feeling that all that is to know is not being shared. Your reaction varies, you first say "no, I am just imaging this" and then that switches to "there is something I just can't put my finger on it, someone is definitely hiding something from me." What do you do?

First, when you get the feeling something isn't right or that someone is hiding something from you, realize you are probably right, it is called intuition. Some people think that intuition is having some sort of psychic abilities and although that can be a part of it, intuition is actually defined by Webster's Dictionary as a comprehension without effort of reasoning; instinctive knowledge. Intuition is a very powerful and real aspect that a person has. Over time it is can be developed and a person can learn to follow it and it will be a great source becoming in tune with your true feelings.

When we learn to trust what our gut is trying to tell us life can become a little confusing. If you feel someone is hiding something or that all the information is not being made available it is ok to ask and be up front about your feelings. It is important to try to stay calm and try not to accuse anyone of trying to be deceitful. Many times when something is being held back it is because someone is trying to protect your feelings or the timing of the information being released isn't right. This does cause some doubt and it is normal.

Try and think about a time when you have held information or something that could cause someone pain. You know you weren't trying to purposefully cause pain, it was actually the opposite. You cared so much about the other person; you felt it was best to hide it. Now there are times when people are being deceitful and your intuition will tell you that. It is really all how you handle the situation.

When you know your inner core values and beliefs, you will know when someone hiding something from you is either in or out of alignment with what you stand for. You are a beautiful unique person. When your core values are being stepped on your intuition will let you know and you can act appropriately. When in a situation where you are trying to decide how to deal with this unsettling feeling do a quick metal check list:

1) Is the information that I feel is being hidden from me something I must know - if the answer is no trust it will be given to you when the time is right. An example of this is "Did this person get a promotion and they just aren't telling me?" This is a question that you don't have to have the answer to right now.

2) If the answer is yes, you want to know the information right now, decide how you want to react to the situation if you do receive information and it isn't pleasant news. An example of this is "I think this person is hiding that they may be sick with an illness." You may want to know this right at the time so you can offer your help. The reality is the person may be trying to come to terms with what they are keeping in before they share with you. Your reaction to the news could actually make them feel worse.

3) Once you decide how to appropriately handle the information you must do a real honest evaluation and decide if you can stay true to how you want to handle the situation. Sometimes when you get news that you are emotionally tied to it is difficult to stay in your higher self mode. You may only be able to react. If you feel the information could set you off it is best to wait until you can honestly say to yourself you will act in a way that honors you and your core values. The goal is to keep your integrity and your self-esteem intact so be honest with how you feel you will react before you start asking for the information. Every one of us is human, sometimes we don't act the way we want to. Try and be honest with yourself and make the "higher" decision and then act accordingly to have you want to be viewed.

To recap, if you feel someone is hiding something from you, take a quick scan of what you want. Do you really need the information now? Do you think you will handle the information appropriately? Can you stay in alignment with the who you are and how you want to be seen by others. When you have clarity on this you will be able to proceed in the best way for you. Remember to always try and reach for the best situation.

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About Mary Owens International LLC

Mary Owens is your Connection Queen~ empowering you to connect to your deep thoughts, feelings, values, and desires so you create the life of your dreams! Mary Owens received a Master's in Social Work from the University of Denver in 1997. She is a part of the Quantum Success Coaching Academy as a Law of Attraction Life Coach and will be receiving her certification in 2009. She helps people go from where they are in their lives to where they want to be by using the laws of the universe. She coaches one on one with the great teacher and one of the stars of THE SECRET, Bob Proctor. She currently studies in group settings with James Ray who is also one of the stars of the movie. She has spent years studying the laws of the universe and how they play a part of our lives and relationships. For more information go to THIS LINK!