LESSONS OF LOVE FROM YOUR DOG

Posted by Unknown On Monday, August 24, 2009 8 comments
You can learn a lot about love from a dog. Over the years, we have learned much about the essentials of a loving relationship by observing our dog, Jake.

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We are proud to tell you that Jake is truly a Wonder Dog. He is loving, caring, intuitive, intelligent, handsome, and a wonderful friend and companion. Frankly, we love him like a child. And the good news is, he loves us right back! And he loves us unconditionally!

Jake is a mixed breed dog – half Golden Retriever and half Yellow Lab. He is a marvelous dog. He is a beautiful dog. He has been our faithful companion and best friend for nearly 13 years. He is everything you could ever want in a best friend. He tells us by his “words” and his actions that he is delighted to see us, that he missed us, and that he loves us. And when we come home from work he shivers, howls a gurgling sound, and wags his tail uncontrollably.

No matter how bad our day, no matter how stressful our work, and no matter how tired we are, just seeing Jake lifts up our spirits, relaxes us, and makes us feel loved. Isn’t that amazing? How can a dog have that effect upon us? How can our Wonder Dog, Jake, make us forget all of our cares and woes, lift up our spirits so completely, and make us feel so warm and fuzzy?

1. Here’s the first lesson. Our dog loves us unconditionally. He doesn’t love us “If we do something he likes,” “If we feed him his food and water,” “If we let him sleep with us in bed,” “If we comb his fur,” or “If we take him to the Vet.” He just loves us. He loves us unconditionally. People in the human race should learn this simple lesson.

2. Jake never lies to us. He always tells us the truth. When those soft brown eyes look at you, you melt! There is no equivocation in his eyes. He loves us, plain and simple. Just tell the truth! The eyes know love.

3. Jake never bites us. Oh, for sure, he might let out a little growl when you try to move him over so you can get in bed, but that is only a warning that he has found his “cozy place” in bed and you are intruding on his space. But bite? Never in a thousand years. He disagrees with us from time to time, but we are his friends, his family, and his supporters. To bite us is so far from his mind that he could never imagine it. And neither could we.

4. And finally, Jake knows the most important lesson of all—we are his best friends, his family, his trusted associates, and his providers. He can count on us through thick and thin. He can count on us when the chips are down. Jake knows in his heart that we would never let him down, never cheat on him, never hurt him, and never betray him. He loves us unconditionally and we love him just the same.

You can learn a lot about love from a dog. Our Wonder Dog Jake has taught us the loving lessons of life. We are eternally grateful for his love, his trust, and his companionship.

To learn the lessons we have learned from Jake is to have learned the essence of love. Jake has inspired us on to even greater love. We owe the big boy! His example about love is a model we should all follow. Human beings could learn a lot about love from you. Thanks, Jake. We love you unconditionally.

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8 comments to LESSONS OF LOVE FROM YOUR DOG

  1. says:

    Richard Cranium Yup, I agree. So unlike cats. Cats are evil.

  1. says:

    Unknown Hi Richard,

    Thanks for dropping by and for leaving your comment. Dogs are indeed man's best friend and I have yet to recover from the loss of the last dog I had in 1983. There's so much that we can learn from them, and also other animals as well...Cats are perceived to be evil because of their eyes and the way they creep stealthily around the place.

    Take care and have a great day!

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Anonymous I so agree with Richard. Dogs are so forgiving and unconditional in their love; unlike a certain cat I know that prowls the corridors of Chez Whatever *laughs*

  1. says:

    Unknown Hi Andrea,

    Hehe...You know, I love your recent post about the cat :-). Presumably, because of the feline inhabitant, you do not have any canines with you now, or do you?

    I wish I could have another dog but alas, I do not think I can take the grief and sadness when they die....Indeed, dogs teach us sooooo many lessons.

  1. says:

    Frankie I love puppies too :)

  1. says:

    Unknown Hi Frankie,

    Cool! Looks like we have plenty in common. Take care and have a good week.

    Cheers!

  1. says:

    Shannon What a nice perspective on things. I cannot agree more, although I am a cat lover I admit they are evil, lol! Dogs are just so sweet. I think an equivalent would be a person who never gets jaded or callous with life. These are the people who is not afraid of loving and being loved.

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  1. says:

    Unknown Hi Shannon

    Lovely to see you again. Hope you and yours are doing well.

    Indeed the resilient ones are those with acres of love in their heart - because they have an unending capacity to love and to be loved.

    I agree with you re cats even tho I like cats too. Somehow, their eyes appear evil - or it could be the effect of some horror movies that I have watched ;-).

    Take care and thanks for sharing.

    Cheers

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