Sometimes, without realization, we find ourselves facing major issues in our life be it in our family life, at the work place or even with our friends. In the twinkling of an eye, we seem to be alone facing these problems.
The situation is made worse if one is facing mid-life crisis because one would have to cope with a range of unpleasant feelings and doubts that plague our mind.
During such trying times, we may be so overcome with worry and begin to wonder if we will ever survive the crisis in an intact manner or will we be scarred for life.
Regardless of what is the situation, we have to seriously pay attention to every aspect of our lives that is giving us problems.
Firstly, we must understand the source of the crisis. We must be aware of what is it that is depriving us of the ability to see the problem as it is. Our perspective is the key. If we regard it as a burden, then it will be one. No matter what it is, we should remain positive and enjoy this unknown journey to another plateau of our lives.
Acceptance and decisiveness is vital for us to move on. The past should be left behind and if remembered, only for the way we have become wiser.
Many times, we should take a good look at our lives and reassess our position and in doing so, we can face reality and make the right choices to change.Otherwise, we will be forced to change by circumstances that are beyond our control. It is when we view change positively that we are able to live our lives to the max.
4 comments to SOMETIMES LIFE CAN GIVE US HARD KNOCKS
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Unknown My dear Andrea,
You are most welcome!!! If truth be told, I was thinking of you when I put this up...and waited for over three hours before you finally appeared!!! Am glad it touched you, just as it touched me, dear friend.
hugs
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CS Foong Thanks for this meaningful and deep article, Paula. Most of us have gone through situations like this and some rise above the ashes while others crumble never to recover. How sad. Hopefully there will be family or true friends around to help each other.
I too have experienced "hell" and it still gives me the creeps to recall those times.
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Unknown Hi CS
Thanks so much for your very sincere and heartfelt comment. It matters a lot to have supportive loved ones around when we go through the testing of fire for if we survive, we will be honed in ways that we never expected. I am certain you rose from the ashes with much strength and fortitude to be who you are today. Take care and may God continue to bless and guide you and yours always.
warmest wishes
Paula
Anonymous Paula: I can't tell you just how much this particular post of yours means to me today. Thank you so much, my friend. You are such a life-saver!!!