TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A HOUSEWIFE

Posted by Unknown On Monday, November 23, 2009 16 comments
Today is the first day of the end of year school break and it has been one heck of a tiring day indeed! A normal day for me is one that is spent with my laptop doing my favorite activity - blogging and reading, of course. With the school break, it means I am lonely no more.

The day started with a session with Hobart to help him with his personal statement essay for his application to Berkeley and another ivy league university followed by an Evil Knievel stunt as I drove at breakneck speed to drop my boy at his last BM tuition class for the year. FYI, I am quite a race-car driver - when I drive, my passengers close their eyes, pray and step on their 'brakes':-).

10.15 a.m. I rushed home for my last class with two siblings - told you that I am retiring.

11.20a.m. Next was a repeat stunt of a speedy drive to the BM tutor's home and lunch at Bali-Bali in Sungei Dua where I enjoyed a tim-sum lunch with my boy.

12.40p.m. Interestingly, I was driving at quite a record-breaking speed along Jalan Glugor, enjoying the straight road when I suddenly realized that the traffic light had turned red and many cars were stationary. At the speed of lightning, I stepped on the brakes and prayed so hard, confessing every single unconfessed sin in me for I seriously thought that I would meet my Maker soon.

Screeeeeeeeeeeeech! The car came to a halt in the nick of time and Nick my boy said quite calmly, "Mom, that was a close shave!"

12.30pm My second post for the day was posted as pre-scheduled.

12.40p.m. We reached home and Nick went to practise his piano after clearing his books. In almost two hours, he would be sitting for his Yamaha Grade 6 keyboard exam. That would be his fourth and final music exam for the year (the others being his ABRSM Grade 7 for piano and violin, ABRSM Grade 6 piano theory).

While he was running his fingers on the piano keyboard, I was running mine over my laptop keyboard, publishing and responding to comments.

1.45p.m. I locked up and proceeded to drive my older son's car and then remembered that there was no petrol. Picking up my own car key, I locked up again and forgetfully went into my son's car and proceeded to start the engine with my own car key. After struggling a few times, I finally realized what an idiot I was and this time went off in the correct car and made our way to Yamaha.

2.00 p.m. We reached the music school and Nick, my 11 year old son registered for the exam. Thank goodness Yamaha has wi-fi and I could still surf the net on my pda while waiting for him and listening to other parents exchanging notes about their children's tutors.

2.15 p.m. Nick went upstairs for his exam scheduled at 2.30p.m.

2.50p.m. He came down feeling very elated and we went to buy cheese tartlets and egg tarts to celebrate. After that, we walked to the car park. I stood there looking for my car. Darn!!! I did not park it there but had parked it opposite a row of shop houses. Another disgraceful episode of forgetfulness in front of my boy. I smiled at him and reminded him that I am growing older :-). Soon after, I drove to my aunt's house and had tea there. She is back from US for a few weeks and will be returning to San Francisco soon.

3.45p.m. We drove to The Sire restaurant as I wanted to show my aunt the place but it was closed so we drove to Island Hospital where we waited for her turn to see the physician for the results of the medical examination that she had taken this morning. When I asked for some paper, the doctor looked at me with a shocked expression. What in the world is this mad woman doing?

Anyway, I explained that I had to take notes for my cousins who live abroad. Following that, we had to settle the bill and schedule for more tests the next day.

5.15p.m. We reached her home, exchanged fond farewells and then I drove home as quickly as I could.

Weaving my way in and out of the traffic which was moving at a crawl, I took 30 minutes to reach home, feeling cheated and frustrated because I had foolishly thought that I could reach home in 15 minutes.

5.45 p.m We finally reached home. I scurried around the house at top-speed to do the chores and with much haste, settled in front of my beloved laptop to publish and to respond to comments.

7.30 p.m. The whole family went out for dinner and only returned at 8.45 p.m.

Everyone went about doing their own thing quietly and it was blogging time for me again. By then, I basked in the aura of my son :-) whom I love to bits. He bombarded me with tons of questions and it was most challenging to answer them. Ironically, when I stumbled, he said,"Mom - just google it!"

In between, I also cleaned my beloved laptop and vacuumed the keyboard and cleaned every single black key most lovingly indeed.

9p.m. Reading time. I usually set a reading list for him. As he had just finished reading his entire collection of Townsend's Adrian Mole series, he 'requested' me to read Townsend's "Adrian Mole and the Weapons of Mass Destruction" while he read his fourth book in the "Diary of a Wimpy Kid" series. Golly! I was in for a surprise. My boy officially launched his Q & A session on Adrian Mole and I was expected to answer all questions correctly. Truth is, I failed miserably as I had been laughing too much at Townsend's humor to pay careful attention to details! Mega embarrassment, compliments of Sue Townsend and my son.

10. 30pm Bedtime for my boy and finally - peaceful blogging time for me :-).

I survived Day 1 of the school holidays and am very tired indeed with all the rushing here and there like a mad hatter.

But you know what? I would not trade this for anything in the world. The time spent with my boy is the most beautiful moment to me cos he will grow up too quickly and soon will tell me that I have to ask for permission to kiss him!!

So here's wishing all parents and children a wonderful time during this holiday season. Don't forget to spread a little love and kindness around, especially with the Christmas season round the corner.

Take care and have a good day!

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Rationale for this post:

Many readers and friends actually ask me how I find the time to blog and to carry on with my daily activities. Hopefully, this will answer your questions. It is 11.30p.m. now and truly, day is done but I will be up again in the middle of the night to write cos that is when I write best! Take care, dear reader.

I will resume blogging on socio-political posts tomorrow.

16 comments to TRUE CONFESSIONS OF A HOUSEWIFE

  1. says:

    Anonymous can u afford a rm42,000.00 laptop ?
    the penang mara has bought 2 sets !!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anonymous,

    No way! I am just a housewife. Yes, Malaysians are up in arms about it and I also blogged about that in my post called MORALLY IMMORAL.

    Shocking, isn't it? Check out that post for more mind-boggling statistics.

    Thanks for sharing..

    Take care and have a nice day.

  1. says:

    Anonymous TRY A LITTLE KINDNESS : (sing it) .

    If u see yr brother standing by the road
    with a heavy load from the seeds he sowed
    and if u see yr sister falling by the way
    just stop and say "u're going the wrong way" !

    chorus :
    U've got to try a little kindness, yes, show a little kindness
    just shine yr light for everyone to see
    and if u try a little kindness
    then u'll overlook the blindness
    of the narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets !

    Dun walk around the down & out
    lend a helping hand instead of doubt
    and the kindness dat u show everyday
    will help someone along their way !

    repeat chorus !

  1. says:

    Anonymous NFA on the laptops one !

  1. says:

    Cat-from-Sydney Aw...Aunty Paula,
    Drive carefully, please..... What a hectic life you have. Don't forget to stop and smell the roses once in a while, OK? purrr....meow!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Cat-in-Sydney

    Good morning dearie! Thanks for swinging by and the timely reminder to slow down.

    It is always hectic during school break cos I have to pander to my boy's needs and to ensure that there is enough bantering at home to keep him intellectually stimulated.

    I wanted to send him to Outward Bound School in Lumut but the thought of him being away for so long breaks my heart.

    Take care and have a good day.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Anonymous Bala : ' yes, it is najib's younger brother Nazim ....!'

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anonymous @ 8.27 a.m.

    Thanks for the lyrics of this song sung by Glen Campbell.In fact, as a teenager, I performed this song many times.

    The lyrics are firm reminders of the importance of words of love and kindness which are so important in our cruel world.

    Thanks for your thoughtfulness. Have a nice day.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Cat-from-Sydney Aunty Paula,
    At least you're not a Desperate Housewife...har har har har har har....meow!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Cat-in-Sydney

    LOL!!!! No way! Hahaha! Wah lah - Angelina is in a cheeky mood today and I can imagine you prancing around chasing Brad in the living room now hahaha...

    Meeeeoooow

    Take care and have a great day!

    hugs and salams

  1. says:

    Unknown The whole world knows :

    A house work is never done...let the men know...let the kids know...and let all people know...

    A housewife keeps the house and provides a home for the family, otherwise it will just be an empty house....

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Marilyna,

    :-) Hurray for your comment!

    Thanks so much for empathizing and for being a fellow housewife in pursuit of happiness, fulfilment and satisfaction as we go about our everyday chores and responsibilities...

    May your days and nights be filled with showers of blessings and may you leave behind a legacy of love.

    Take care and do keep in touch.

    Best wishes,
    mws

  1. says:

    bakarmerah Dear mad housewife chick,

    Re: your new avatar

    I remembered you berating me, we must build not destroy.

    Well, we have to destroy first before we build.

    With your new image, it is so much more honest, and not a hair out of place.

    So, we bid a fond farewell to the whale who is heading that way anyway.

    Hey, first impression is every thing!

    And fangs for listening to an old dog.

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Pug aka ker ker,

    Aisehman - the whale died lah - too fat - cos when it plunged, it was too heavy and could never rise again LOL!!

    Er...I thought my hair looked a mess with the fan blowing in my face..Actually, I was laughing away when I took that pic with my webcam cos I told myself, yea - no sane shampoo company will ever want to use me in an advert but what the heck.:-)

    Thanks for the tip. Of course I have to listen to you cos you are the media expert, ker ker.

    Xie xie for your valuable input and encouraging comment. Wooof woof!

    Have a great day!

  1. says:

    Unknown Thank you Ms Smith, I see you reply to every comment on your blog. I am not a housewife, eer, just a little girl in mid twenties trying to survive the cold winter months in New York City.

    A friend recommends me to this site and he said that this gutsy lady is one hell of blogger (sorry if I used some rough language).

    Keep well Ms Smith...

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Marilyna

    Wow! You have youth and wisdom and I am sure beauty of character as well!

    Thanks so much for visiting my blog, reading my rants and most importantly for sharing your views here. Thanks also to your friend for the recommendation and the heartwarming descriptor (which I regard positively hehe). By any chance, is your friend Ivan or Prf Dr. Lee or a friend I know? If so, please send them my regards.

    Do take care and do keep in touch.

    Here's a hug for you for the cold wintry night in NYC.

    Cheers

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