WHAT A DIFFERENCE IT WOULD HAVE MADE IF...

Posted by Unknown On Friday, June 4, 2010 14 comments
The tragic 3.30am accident involving the woman’s Perodua Myvi, a couple’s Toyota Vios and a lorry with two men. as reported HERE in The Star deeply saddened me because of many reasons. According to theSun, the woman has been identified as Florina anak Joseph, 27, a Sarawakian. Police said a Toyota Vios which was heading from Cheras to the city centre lost control and hit the Proton Myvi which was travelling in the opposite direction, near Taman Pertama at 3.30am. A lorry laden with vegetables then hit the woman's car from the rear. The car then caught fire with Florina trapped in the wrecked vehicle.

According to The Star:

Among the earliest to arrive on the scene was 31-year-old Teo Chai Yong.

He was on the phone with the emergency hotline operator when he heard the frightened screams of “Tolong! Tolong! Help me!” from a woman in a Myvi. Sparks flew from under the car.

Teo quickly drove to the nearest 24-hour petrol station, less than 500m away, hoping to find a fire extinguisher.

“As I ran up to the paying counter, I saw four fire extinguishers behind the glass door. An attendant was on the other side.

“I pleaded with him to let me have the fire extinguisher and screamed that someone was pinned inside a burning car.

“But he just stared at me and kept saying he was not allowed to open the door after hours,” Teo said.

In desperation, Teo even offered to buy the extinguishers and showed the attendant his identity card.

Shortly, a second attendant showed up beside the first man and told Teo to call the fire department if there was a fire.

In frustation, Teo rushed back to the accident scene, only to see the car, with the woman still inside, engulfed in flames.

“She was still screaming but I could do nothing. I just stood there, her screams grew more frantic before fading away,” he said in a telephone interview.

BH Petrol’s managing director Tan Kim Thiam, when contacted, expressed regret over the incident at one of their petrol stations.
My condolences to the family of Florina anak Joseph and the occupants of the Vios, Chong Kah Choon, 17, and Cheng Yoke Sin, 24, who suffered serious injuries and have been warded at Hospital Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia.

I am deeply concerned about the trend whereby more and more youth are keeping late nights. Nocturnal visits to internet cafes, nasi kandar centres (especially with the World Cup) or even to entertainment centres are most unhealthy habits because their safety is at risk. At the same time, their parents would be worrying about their kids and why they have not come home. Would Florina have been alive today if she, Chong Kah Choon and Cheng Yoke Sin had not been out at the time of the night? I empathize with their parents and much as I am saddened, I know I cannot fully feel the magnitude of their grief and sadness. I do have tears in my eyes as I type this.

If indeed one suffers from insomnia or hunger, I would recommend home-made sandwiches or even reading a book, watching a very boring movie which could easily put one to sleep or even surfing the net to be gainfully occupied if counting sheep is looked upon with disdain.

Life is so precious...one must not put oneself at risk by driving at night or driving recklessly or being out at unearthly hours!

My late father always insisted that I was home by midnight even after I graduated and was working. I recall it was a bone of contention between us as I could not understand why he was so insistent. Nonetheless, I did not want to exacerbate the situation and did abide by the house rules even though I grumbled all the way. Then, when I had my boys, I realized why he imposed the curfew. Needless to say I have had my share of worrying while my older boy was out at nasi kandar stalls which is why this tragedy resonates with me. I can have a rough idea about how the parents feel.

I still remember one of my Sociology classes five years ago. It was the morning after the college Prom Night which I did not attend as I am not one who likes to be all decked in frills and finery. One girl walked into my class, sat down in front of me and took out a piece of paper and passed it to the girl sitting behind her. I heard her say "Here's a cheque for RM10 000". My eyes popped out. Out of curiosity, I asked her if anything was wrong and she said that is was compensation for smashing the other girl's car very badly. I did not say anything else for I had only taught them for a few weeks.

I still recall another case where one guy told me that he could not hand up my assignment because he was at the police station the whole night. Again, I asked what had happened and he said he totalled his mom's Perdana. He saw my look of disbelief and showed me the pics of the accident in his handphone. Indeed the car was gone. I had a tete-a-tete with this boy whom had been in two of my courses and advised him to live a less dangerous lifestyle. He graduated and is now working for a bank while pursuing his masters.

When young, it is easy for youth to enjoy their taste of freedom, especially when they have acquired a driving license or even one for motorcycles. Yet, with freedom comes responsibility. So if you are a youth, do take care, drive/ride safely and treasure life and remember how your parents could be worrying about you when you are out...

Secondly, there is the whole question of safety. I thank God for civic-conscious 31-year-old Teo Chai Yong who tried his best to get the fire-extinguishers from the petrol station. I do not blame the staff for they have to follow their orders. At the same time, the dreamer in me wished that a passer-by had a fire-extinguisher in his/her car to go to Florina's assistance.

Safety is something which we take for granted.

I have seen cars burst into flames in a few minutes after stalling along the road. Thankfully for me, I have never seen anyone burnt to death. My heart goes out to Teo Chai Yong and other witnesses of the accident. The memory of her screams and seeing the charred remains must be a very scarring experience.

I truly wish that each of us will have a fire-extinguisher in our cars. I checked mine and it has expired and I will be getting a replacement later in the afternoon. One of my friends, J.S. Tee who is in fire-fighting services, told me years ago that every car and kitchen must have a fire-extinguisher. Frankly, I never took him seriously until I read the news about the tragedy.

Today, as the school holidays begin, may each of us who are travelling near and far take extra precaution to observe safety guidelines and to be ready to help those who are in need. May Florina rest in peace and may the Almighty heal Chong Kah Choon and Cheng Yoke Sin.

Life is precious...let us value and appreciate every second of our life. Have a blessed weekend!

14 comments to WHAT A DIFFERENCE IT WOULD HAVE MADE IF...

  1. says:

    Ummie When nights are not the time anymore for retreat,
    It is high time for nights to make its exit,
    Then people will ask why the sun works 24/7
    Living the world's life to the fullest no more a haven.

  1. says:

    Catherine Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
    Life is beauty, admire it.
    Life is bliss, taste it.
    Life is a dream, realize it.
    Life is a challenge, meet it.
    Life is a duty, complete it.
    Life is a game, play it.
    Life is a promise, fulfill it.
    Life is sorrow, overcome it.
    Life is a song, sing it.
    Life is a struggle, accept it.
    Life is a tragedy, confront it.
    Life is an adventure, dare it.
    Life is luck, make it.
    Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
    Life is life, fight for it.

    ~~ Mother Teresa

  1. says:

    Anonymous What a sad day and such a dreadful to die. Screaming her lungs out and yet seeing the fire consuming her. Cannot imagine the pains she had endured and condelences to her parents. May her soul rest in peace and in the bosom of the Almighty.

    Yes, when we were young, we do silly thing that endanger our lives as well as others without blinking an eyelid. I was about 17 years old and got onto the bike (honda cub) with modified exhaust and race with others after midnight. The noise was unique as all bikes were modified with steel pipe without silencer and we now call these people "mat rempits" as we were then.

    Just silly young men without a care for the world nor life thereafter. Death was not in our mind and fear was not even near at all as we race against each other and some daring guys did some stunts as well. God is good that we passed that period without calamity. Even though a few of them have minor mishap not during racing but during practices.

    Did I learned ? Yes, those days in the 70's we have less cars on the road and after 12 midnights the stretch from Sitiawan town to Lumut (7 miles) will be dark and deserted. Many dangerous corners and a little downhill/uphill as well. I will not ask anyone to rsk their life in such risky racing for nothing in return. For speed thrills and certainly kills too.
    ~ahoo~

  1. says:

    nick Sis,

    My condolences to the family of the deceased and those who were involved in the accident. Such a tragedy and a most unfortunate turn of event. I sincerely hope that Malaysian especially our youth will be more civic minded and able to react fast in the event of an emergency.

    It does not bode well for Malaysia to have citizen who are "robots" in action and thinking. We need citizen who are able to think fast and alert. We definitely don't need those "robot" attending the petrol station. If a life is at stake, "s@#*w" the directive or order or command, I say! You're not letting someone rob the station, you're just lending him a fire extinguisher, for heaven sakes! A life was lost because someone thought following orders is more important than a human life. Such stupidity and an unparalleled one at that!

    May GOD bless all Malaysian and be spared the fate of unthinking "robots".

    Nick.

  1. says:

    Anonymous What a sad day!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Ummie

    Wow - thanks for sharing such deep thoughts. How are you, dear Ummie? Been some time since I heard from you. Will be doing some music posts like the Lobo one next week :-). Stay in touch, ya? Take care and have a lovely weekend!

    Salam

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Catherine

    Many thanks for such inspirational words from Mother Theresa. It is a timely reminder for us to live life to the fullest and to treasure it always. Take care and may your life be blessed always.

    Warmest wishes

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear ahoo

    Thank you for empathizing with her parents and loved ones.

    Thank you also for sharing so honestly and candidly about your youthful days. I had my fair share too and even landed up with concussion and woke up in hospital...reason - cycling to school in the rain without my glasses and I did not see an oncoming car coming at full speed. I am glad to be alive!

    Thanks for your timely advice for youth too.

    Take care and have a blessed weekend.

    Shalom

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Nick

    I can feel your anger as I am sure you feel my muted anger too. It is such a tragedy that she could have been saved but alas, it was not to be.

    May her soul rest in peace and may her loved ones be comforted by the Almighty during this time of loss.

    Take care too, Nick. I appreciate your readership, comments and the way you are an inspiration to all of us in cyberspace who chance upon your candid and wise comments.

    May the Almighty bless you and yours in a very special way...

    Salam

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 4.07pm

    Sighs...indeed. Life is so short...Let us really treasure life and our loved ones.

    God bless you.

    Best wishes

  1. says:

    KoSong Cafe About the late night-outs, there is nothing we as parents can do because it is the present young generation's way of life and it is likely to be strongly resisted because of peer pressure. Coming back at 3.00 am and they can rightly say they actually came back early (literally) the next day.

    Force them to stay home and they are likely to be at their computers until the wee hours. My elder daughter works best until early morning so I wouldn't complain.

    We (as in parents, the authorities and so on) should strive to make public places safe for everybody. When we analyse how Canny Ong was abducted when she went to the car park in BSC, an upper middle class complex, when her mother and other family members were nearby; and how another girl too, who went jogging with her father who was only a few minutes ahead; I feel there is no way we can prevent such mishaps if they had been targeted... unless locking all girls in is considered an option! Again, the stress should be on a really secure environment provided by police and not expect people to stay home after midnight.
    In fact, both the above cases happened before midnight, with parents too!

    During the wee hours, it is like twilight zone when even policemen cannot be trusted!

    I hope the unfortunate fire incident will encourage more people to keep fire extinguisher in their cars, but on a voluntary basis. Please do not make it compulsory as a knee-jerk reaction. I know of an accident where four men in a SUV knocked a tree and turned on its side. All of them were not wearing seat belts. The only person conscious managed to pull the other three out of the car and threw them like sacks of potatoes before the vehicle caught fire. They believe they would have died if they were wearing seat belts then!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Kosong Cafe

    That is sound and pragmatic advice. It took me a bit of time to come to terms with my boy's lifestyle. In the process, we both learnt to see each other's viewpoints and to strengthen our mother-son relationship despite the rough ride at the beginning.

    Thank you for highlighting key issues wrt post. I do agree that it is more challenging to have daughters. Perhaps, being the worrier that I am, I can understand why God gave me two boys :-).

    The four men in the accident were very lucky to live to tell the tale.

    During this holiday season, may you and all of us have journey mercies in all our journeys. Take care and have a lovely weekend with your family.

    Thank you once again for embellishing the post with you very sincere and thought-provoking input.

    God bless!


    Cheers

  1. says:

    Anonymous can someone/authorities check what make the car easily on fire..i've seen and read the news lately,lots of accidents lead to fire & burnt the cars...afraid that it has something to do with the new fuel the cheap one RON95..might be flammable

  1. says:

    Masterwordsmith Dear Anon @ 9.31pm

    Very good point raised. Hopefully someone out there who is an expert in
    this area can help.I will read up on this...Thanks for the alrt.

    Cheers

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