Escape from an Attempted Kidnapping

Posted by M ws On Wednesday, May 30, 2012 4 comments
Xinch was my student in the A-Level Program @ KDU College Penang back in 2004 (if I remember correctly). At that time, I already knew she is a bright, promising and charismatic young lady with such creative and artistic talent. Lively and jovial, Xinch and I never lost touch and sometimes meet up - just the two of us or sometimes with Dr Chung Wei-Lyn. Yesterday, I discovered via her FB update that she had escaped from an attempted kidnap and much as I was thankful,  I never realized how serious it was till I read her write-up in The Malaysian Insider. Thank God you are OK, Xinch. You are one brave young lady and I pray that God will continue to guide and protect you. It is really admirable that she took the trouble to pen her experiences to share that others might take note and be on guard lest they become a victim of an attempted kidnapping.

To everyone out there, please take care and be very careful especially when you are at a car park.

Here is her write-up: How I escaped an attempted kidnapping — Chin Xin-Ci

As I sit here writing this, I am just so grateful to be alive.

To think that 64 hours ago I had a knife to my throat, face to face with the threat of being kidnapped and raped.

It was a Sunday, at 5.22PM. I was alone, walking towards my boyfriend’s car in level B2 of The Curve, Mutiara Damansara. He was not in town, and I was running errands with his car. Just as I was putting my shopping bags in the rear seat, the rear car door was slammed against my back, and a meat cleaver was pressed against my throat. A man covered my mouth with his hand, and whispered not to scream. He then shoved me onto the floor of the backseat of the car and waved the cleaver at me, reminding me not to scream. He was skinny, wore a baggy turquoise blue T-shirt, had a thick moustache and short curly hair, was approximately 5’8”, in his mid-30s, and of Indian descent.

At this moment, a second man appeared. He was also in his mid-30s. He was wearing a red T-shirt, had a crew-cut, and was of Malay descent. He grabbed my car keys and demanded I hand over my parking ticket. I couldn’t remember where it was. They shoved me deeper into the car, and the Indian man got into the back seat with me, while the Malay man got into the driver’s seat, driving us out of the car park.

I told them they could take everything, just let me go. But at that point they didn’t even ask for money. Instead, the Indian man started to make sexual advances. Then it hit me. “Oh my God. Oh my God. This is really happening. I’m being kidnapped… and I think I know what they want.”

From this moment on, there were a few crucial things that happened that I think are the reasons I’m alive today.

1. I managed to get into a position to escape

When they got into the car, the Indian man had tried to force my body down onto the floor. I knew that the moment I’m on the floor, there would be no chance of escape. So I begged him to let me sit up. I promised him I wouldn’t scream or alert anyone’s attention. Thankfully, he trusted me, and let me sit up, gripping my arm tightly. Then I told him my arm really hurt and to please not grip it so hard. He loosened his grip.

2. I did not fight for the sake of fighting

I was in an enclosed space, with no clear escape route. I would never win in a fight with these two guys, especially when they had sharp weapons. Had I fought from the get go, I may not have been in a position to escape. I might’ve even been knocked out cold, and God only knows where I would be right now.

3. I was lucky and sneaky

I knew that the only way to escape was to jump out of the car, even if it was moving. They had locked the car doors. So I leaned back, pretended to scratch my hair, and shakily unlocked the door I was leaning against. I’m so lucky they did not see or hear this!

4. I went ‘crazy’ at the right time

And then I waited. I knew that the car would have to slow down outside the parking lot, as it exits to merge with the main roads. The moment it slowed down, I opened the car door and tried to make a run for it. I failed. I kicked my legs out of the car, but the Indian man had managed to pull my body back in. From this moment on, everything is a blur. I remember the Malay driver temporarily stopping the car, leaning over from the driver’s seat and attempting to close the door and pull my legs in. At that point I remember thinking, “Even if I don’t get out now, I need to keep the door open and my legs out the door. At the very least, it should cause a scene, and someone would see me. Or, the door might hit another car and they’ll be forced to slow down.” So I continued kicking. My right foot pushed against the wide-open car door to keep it open. I recall elbowing, struggling, kicking, and even biting. I lost my glasses, and was struggling blindly for my life. At some point the Malay driver yelled, “BAGI DIA LEPAS! BAGI DIA LEPAS!” (Let her go! Let her go!) and the Indian man loosened his grip. I made a jump out of the still-moving car, and ran for my life.

5. I acted despite the fear

My friends said I was brave. But I didn’t feel like it. I was quivering and shaking in fear. I was so afraid. I thought I was going to die. I was weak with fear and deathly afraid. I truly thought “this was it”. But I knew I HAD to move. I had to run. Or there would be an even worse fate in store for me. While I was quaking in fear, I forced myself to look around and see if there was any way I could escape, or even catch someone’s eye.

6. I remembered the people whom I love

The only thing that matters when you’re faced with potentially horrendous fate is the people in your life. When I felt the knife to my neck, the first thing I thought was, “This cannot be happening. I must be dreaming.” The second? The people who truly matter to me flashed across my mind. It sounds cliche, but it’s true. I thought of my parents. My brother. Khailee. Esther. More people. That’s all I could think of for a few moments, before I thought, “Shit. I need to get out of here.”

I ran towards the Maybank outlet at the Curve. There were plenty of people milling around. I screamed for help over and over again. I was hysterical. I grabbed an older Malay man by his shoulders and begged for help before practically collapsing at his feet.

I will always remember the relief and liberation I felt, running over Mutiara Damansara’s manicured grass and into the crowd.

Today, I found out that the entire ordeal from the moment I left the parking ticket payment machine, to my escape, happened in about four minutes. To me, it felt like one long nightmare.

We never think it’s going to happen to us... and then it does. I used to think that this is something that happens only in the papers and to people far, far removed from me. But then it did happen to me. I moved to PJ/KL six years ago, and I’ve spent countless mornings, afternoons and nights at The Curve. When my friends and I were organising Rock Up! back in 2008, we were walking around the place at 4AM even. It’s been six years, and never once did I feel that I was unsafe at The Curve. Until yesterday.

I feel like moving out of the country ASAP. Getting the hell out of this state where you hear of a kidnapping or attempted one every month (remember Nayati?), or a snatch theft every week. And yet I’m fully aware of the fact that in another country with more lax firearm laws, they would’ve been holding a gun to my head, not a cleaver. And that would’ve been far worse.

I’m Blessed. By God’s grace, I am alive and relatively well. And I will live another day to build another cat iPhone app. It just was not my time to go. And for that, I thank God.

I want to share this story with everyone because cops tell me that they rarely get to hear it from someone who escapes.

Girls, be so very careful. Be vigilant, and please try not to go anywhere alone. If you need to walk to the car park, and you’re alone, get a guard to go with you. I was recently told that it’s part of their job description to assist anyone if needed.

Guys, watch out for your girlfriends, wives, mothers, sisters and friends. Walk with them, don’t take their paranoia or fear lightly. Watch out for them.

And everyone, just watch out for each other. Take care of each other. These things really DO happen. As I ran out of the car, so many people came to help me. Strangers who didn’t know who I was, came forward and offered me tissue paper, water, cellphones, and general comfort.

Malaysians, please care for one another. You already do. Just keep on caring. Keep watching out for each other. Don’t worry about being thought of as “a busybody” or “overreacting”. The world can be a cruel place, but all it takes is for people to care for one another to make all the difference.

4 comments to Escape from an Attempted Kidnapping

  1. says:

    CLY Fortunately Ms Chin had the presence of mind to help her to escape. BUT many unfortunate souls had not the chance to escape.Here the crime was committed in a up-market shopping area and during daylight. What are we coming to?
    I brought a friend from Taiwan for dinner in KL. Driving around the residential suburbs, he was shock to see that ALMOST every road in residential areas were block by crude barriers and manned by foreign looking personnel. We had to drive a longer distance through designated entrance to fetch another friend. Every side lane were sealed too. The question in his mind was that security level in Malaysia has dropped to that of a lawless state,that we have to live behind barriers.Here PEMANDU is gladly claiming that the security level in country has improved over the years. If that is so why is that the number of barricades has risen in the country?

  1. says:

    masterwordsmith Dear CLY

    Thank you so much for your sincere response and observations. I concur with you and because of my fear, I seldom ever go out on my own unless absolutely necessary. If ever I have to go to a mall on my own, I will drive many rounds just to find a parking lot near to the main entrance or in a brightly lit area. Even so, I usually run instead of taking a leisurely walk and am on the alert when loading groceries in the front seat after which I slam my door and lock it!

    It saddens me to see how things have changed in our country.

    A car thief chased a girlfriend of mine around the Ampang area. She was full of grit and courage and quick to respond for she drove her beamer up the pavement in a bid to escape!

    Take care and God bless you and everyone. Have a nice day! It is great to hear from you again!

    Best wishes

  1. says:

    cin2tan A lady from China said in Peking , shanghai & other cities : NO one dare to steal or snatch BUT berani to cheat travelers with fake jades , herbs or drugs .....!!

  1. says:

    masterwordsmith Dear cin2tan

    These days - anything can happen. Even friends can betray friends, cheat old friends etc.

    We all have to be careful and trust only those who are really trustworthy and this has to be confirmed through time and cross-checking + observations.

    We live in a cruel and evil world so watch and pray.

    Cheers

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