So many people are being challenged right now. Changes are happening because they are "supposed" to happen.
Change is all there is.
People have lost or changed jobs; and because of this they're being challenged with relationships and health issues. You may have been one of those personally challenged with something and/or know someone else who is. What does all this mean?
How Can You Make It Easier?
Seeing the Bigger Picture Can Make Positive Changes
No one is immune to any of this.
My husband lost his job out of the blue over one year ago and I have friends that are in the same boat now. There is a way to make it easier. Understanding that we are all here to grow (like a plant that has outgrown it's old pot) and when we have outgrown the old way of experiencing life and want to grow, if we don't take those steps ourselves, we will be thrown into situations that will help us to get "out of the box" and change.
The new way is not comfortable and that's what everyone tries to avoid. If you can learn to "go with the flow" your roots will soon fit nicely and you will be much happier.
Learn to Read the Signs Beforehand
Preventing that "Out of Control" feeling
Things are never the way they appear.
Our lives are a projection of our own thoughts; meaning that what we see is what we get. What you focus on creates more of. People have a habit of always focusing on what they don't want instead of what they do.
If you are unhappy in your job, that's your unconscious telling you that 'you need out". Don't let your old belief systems and fears keep you from something else you should be doing. Read the signs and always notice how you are feeling. Your feeling center is a dead give-a-way to what you are doing in your life that you either hate or love.
Preventing your feelings from going out of control is the answer to creating a whole different wonderful life. Learn to respond to what is going on around you instead of re-act. Resonding comes from the present. Re-action comes from your old programming; ie: the past.
By staying conscious (aware) of how you are feeling during the day, noticing how you're feeling and shifting your mindset to thinking thoughts of more of what you want instead of what you don't want keeps you in the present and that's where your power is; for then you will be creating tomorrow from the present instead of the past.
written by Dr. Erika Duffy
Author's Bio
Dr. Erika Duffy is a 3 time bestselling co-author with Deepak Chopra, Dr. Wayne Dyer and Mark Victor Hansen, holds a Doctoral in C.O.R.E. Counseling, certified Hypnotherapist, Speaker and Member of the NGH (National Guild of Hypnotists), certified Spirit Regression Therapist (trained by Dr. Michael Newton, author of "Journey of Souls" and "Destiny of Souls"), is a successful Entrepreneur, Motivational Speaker, and Success Coach. Erika has a successful practice in N.H. and teaches people all over the world how to let go of destructive unconscious patterns that sabotage their lives and how to re-program their minds for success in wealth, health and love.
beth That's good advice no matter what predicament you're in. Thanks.