HOW TO GET ALONG WITH ALMOST EVERYONE

Posted by Unknown On Sunday, June 28, 2009 2 comments
1. Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself 3 things:

Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?

2. Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully.

3. Never miss the opportunity to compliment or say something encouraging to someone.

4. Refuse to talk negatively about others; Don't gossip and don't listen to gossip.

5. Have a forgiving view of people. Believe that most people are doing the best they can.

6. Keep an open mind; Discuss, but don't argue. (It is possible to disagree without being disagreeable.)

7. Forget about counting to 10. Count to 1,000 before doing or saying anything that could make matters worse.

8. Let your virtues speak for themselves.

9. If someone criticizes you,see if there is any TRUTH to what is being said; if so, make changes; If there is no truth to the criticism, ignore it and live so that no one will believe the negative remark.

10. Cultivate your sense of humor; Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.

11. Do not seek so much to be consoled, as to console;

Do not seek so much to be understood, as to understand;

Do not seek so much to be loved as to love.

Appreciation is an expensive gift which can be given freely without any expense

Love and Peace to All! Have a nice day!

2 comments to HOW TO GET ALONG WITH ALMOST EVERYONE

  1. says:

    jonno1951 It is always the teacher in you. You just cannot help it. HAHAHAHAHA

    This time, I agree wholeheartedly with you. Having said that, it is easier to say then to put it to practise. I wonder if that's why there are so few saints around.

    Have a great weekend and love to the family.

    Hugs
    Uncle John

  1. says:

    Unknown Hi Uncle John,

    LOL!!! You are right :-) because I can safely say that when I was teaching, I spent quite a bit of time settling major and minor tiffs :-)..Indeed it is easier said than done so once in a while, we all need reminders.

    You have a great weekend too with your lovely family....

    We miss you and your laughter.

    hugs from the fat fat ones up in Penang LOL

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