SO WHAT IF I AM A WOMAN?

Posted by Unknown On Saturday, February 27, 2010 32 comments
For a nation that is almost 54 years old, it is saddening to see how the ugliness of sexism still exists in many areas of our society. Sexism, racism, ageism and whatever -isms are examples of discrimination against targeted victims who suffer the consequences of small-minded attitudes of certain characters.



In certain ways, our country has achieved progress at the workplace but a recent report HERE in Malaysian Insider shows that certain attitudes about women have not been eradicated and continue to affect women who seek equal opportunities at work.

Let's be honest. Since the beginning of time, women have been seen as lesser beings to men. In many cultures, they are the cause of many problems. From the Christian viewpoint, Eve is the weaker being because she succumbed to temptation and told Adam to eat the forbidden fruit. Throughout history, women are perceived to be inferior to men and were denied of the right to vote. In some countries, they could not own property, were forced into prostitution if a family was poor or even denied the right to have custody of their children. It almost seems as though women will always be under the control of men!!!



Traditionally, sexism has been a female problem. Women were habitually overlooked for responsible positions in companies, even though they were perfectly suitable for the job. How often do we hear of men suffering from sexism?

I am quite surprised that Datuk Shahrizat Abdul Jalil, Minister for Women, Family and Community Development, has not responded to that report in Malaysian Insider.

Extract from Malaysian Insider (I have responded in italicized font)

“I never said it was a problem that women are working in the civil service. What I said was that in the long run, the dominance of female presence in the service would have a negative impact on the growth and progress of the country,” he told The Malaysian Insider last night.

*Criteria for assessment of this negative impact must be specified and backed by official statistics
* Growth in what terms? Absolute terms? Relative terms? His terms?
*progress of the country in which area? Specify!
*Does this mean women are a liability in public service?
* How do the other women in public service feel about this? WOMEN, Please speak up!!!

He explained that the negative impact would be due to women’s general working attitudes which tended to be inflexible and rigid as well as the fact that they needed to take long maternity leaves.

* Define inflexible! What is his yardstick?
* How did he arrive at this conclusion?
* Does he have any data from public service records to show the inflexibility of women?
* What does he mean by "inflexibility" and "rigid"?
* What is wrong with taking maternity leave as specified in the Labour Law? Does this mean the Labour Department has erred in determining the period of maternity leave????

Ahmad Shah added that the government not only should adhere to its policy of reserving 30 per cent of decision making posts for women, but should also tweak the criterion for qualifying candidates into the posts.

*Does this imply compromising standards?????

“At the present moment, candidates are chosen based on their academic qualifications — at least 90 per cent of the criterion is based on academic achievements. But this does not suffice in the real world.

* What would suffice? Is he implying that educational institutions are NOT playing an effective role in preparing people for the job force????? What then is he suggesting? A complete overhaul in education systems all over the world???

“In that case, even a blind person can get the job, so long as he or she fulfills the relevant qualifications,” he said, adding that most women were generally better than men in academics.

*What is wrong with being BLIND? Isn't this discriminating against the visually-challenged??????
* He mentioned that women are better than men academically - this is a sexist statement that puts men in a bad light. HOW DO THE MEN FEEL? This is an affront to men!!! Come on men - SPEAK UP!!!
* Does he have data to prove this?
* Academics - How did he arrive at his conclusion? Statements which are not backed by evidence can be perceived to be stereotypical statements or oversimplification or overgeneralization - evidence that one displays fallacious thinking!

Ahmad Shah suggested that the criterion be expanded to include emotional strengths, ability to cope under pressure, leadership skills and other skills.

* Is he implying that by doing so, he can prove that men are better than women?

“There must be a mechanism proposed to measure these things before a candidate is selected. Only then is the candidate suitable to hold the respective post,” he said.

* Mechanism? Isn't this a form of rigidity that someone must fit into the template for the position - then only he/she QUALIFIES to hold the job???But did he also not say that women are INFLEXIBLE and RIGID? A clear case of someone who can see the log in his brother's eye but not the speck in his own!!!

In his statement earlier, Ahmad Shah had also said that almost three quarters of the new posts in the administrative and diplomatic service were currently being filled by women.

* Is that a problem? Is this a valid statement or a sweeping statement? 75% is a relative figure. Where are the absolute figures, sir? From which data base did he get this figure?

His claim however was contested by the Public Services Department, which revealed that female presence on the higher management, management and professional as well as support staff roles in the service was 53 per cent in comparison with men at 47 per cent.

* Well, obviously he did not get his database from PSD because the PSD clearly shows only a small difference compared to his claim.

According to its figures, women made up 28 per cent of the higher management workforce, 61 per cent of the management and professional fields and 50 per cent in the support staff group.

Ahmad Shah however insisted that the 61 per cent ultimately meant that in the coming five years, females would dominate the majority of the higher managerial posts in the service.

*How did he arrive at that conclusion?
* Is it a problem if that were to happen? I wonder how he would survive in Tchambuli and Kgatla tribes. :-)

“It is this way now and the same group would be promoted and will form the team for the higher managerial posts. As mentioned before, this affects the delivery system of the service,” he said.

*How will it affect the delivery in real, tangible and intangible terms?

When questioned on whether the present female dominance in the service merely meant that the men, especially the youths, were not interested or incompetent, Ahmad Shah again blamed it on the qualification criteria.

* Again - another criticism of the existing qualifications criteria and standards!

“Woman are better at academics somehow,” he said.

*The second affront to men's neurons in this article. MEN SPEAK UP!!!

According to the 2007 statistics from the Women, Family and Community Development Ministry, the female labour force made up for only 36 per cent of the total labour force of about 10.5 million people.


I really want to know how he arrived at such conclusions.How does he know for a fact that those women are not working just as hard as any of their male coworkers and that they are rigid, inflexible etc? If he is so knowledgeable about women, why is not assisting Datuk Shahrizat in her department?

The elimination of discrimination in employment and the workplace is a fundamental human right, as reflected in a plethora of United Nations and International Labor Organization legal instruments. The Generalized System of Preferences covers other internationally protected workers' rights. Women workers do not deserve second-class treatment, and it's high time Ahmad recognizes that.

If we allow women to be discriminated in the work place, where will we finally draw the line? We have come very far from neanderthal times, where a man was allowed to beat his wife with a stick no thicker then his thumb, hence the term, "Rule of thumb."

Clearly, we still have such a long way to go, before women in our society have equal rights and status with men. How can anyone make and defend such claims publicly not once but twice? It requires every single one of us - male and female alike - to unite in solidarity to end traditions, practices, and laws that allow any form of discrimination!!



It is a struggle for freedom to be fully and completely human and equal without apology or permission. The cause for women's human rights is not about burning bras but all about making women's lives matter everywhere, at every point in time, in any situation be it at work or at home!!! Leaders MUST take action to stop sexual discrimination against women, and allow women to be treated at the equals for who they are and not what some people perceived them to be.

Click HERE to watch Helen Reddy sing I AM WOMAN.

So what if I am a woman? Does it make me a lesser being?

32 comments to SO WHAT IF I AM A WOMAN?

  1. says:

    Anonymous Dear MWS, I shall not dwell on this matter much. ;)

    Briefly, I'll say that the drag on efficiency on employing too many (married)females in the Gomen service is real because many of 'em makes many babies and darn frequently. Replacements for their materity leaves afterwards are often unavailable.

    I can elaborate more but will not because the situation should be self-evident there wrt who are the types.

    The situation in the private sector however may be quite different ; so it depends on the backdrop employers' situation and management. There really is no easy blanket labelling on sexism or not sexism, as such.

    But I absolutely agree with you that misogyny lite exists strongly in this sick society especially because of sh*tty Arab cultural overhang.

    ~wits0~

  1. says:

    Anonymous Actually, it can be seen that this idiot oso dunno how to tok:

    Cuepacs insists female majority bad for civil service
    http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/index.php/malaysia/54652-cuepacs-insist-female-majority-bad-for-civil-service-

    ~wits0~

  1. says:

    Monyet King MWS, people like Ahmad Shah of CUEPACS are morons who prefer women to stay at home, wear tudung and look after babies while the men are free to go gallavanting. I have blogged about it this morning.

  1. says:

    Anonymous Basically it's the Gomen Civil Service that is to be blamed here for the fall in efficiency. Because of politics, it employs plenty of women but then it made no viable provision for their maternity leaves and required replacements.

    ~wits0~

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear ~wits0~

    My apologies for this delayed response. I was seething with anger and smoke was coming out of my ears and hands were shaking after I finished my 'mild' post. I give myself a pat on the back for controlling my temper in this post.

    Ah neaderthal moronic misogynistic ninc**mp**ps have nothing better to do!!!

    I always get all fired up when it comes to sexist fiends.

    So sorry...but you are right in your assessment of the situation.

    I am sure there are many in Malaysians who do not think ina sexist manner.

    Take care and thanks for sharing.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear ~wits0~

    My post was based on the same article you cited.

    I highlighted the many fallacies produced.

    Cannot vocalize, cannot rationalize...

    In Manglish, we always say How can?

    Sighs. The answer : CAN!! Only in CanLand!!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Dr. Bala

    Good to know that we are standing together in solidarity in this issue!
    Love your comment :-).

    Have a great weekend with your loved ones.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear ~wits0~

    Once again, I take my hats off to you for your insightful and sharp observation!

    They err because of their politics which reflect their errant thinking...

    When will the madness end?

  1. says:

    Anonymous When the Gomen made no viable provision for their maternity leaves and required replacements, the situation gets more complex than cutting down on just efficiency ; the colleagues to such females are severely imposed on when there are no replacements when they go on long maternity leaves.

    Imagine, e.g., yourself a Gomen doctor(one of two) in a small Gomen health clinic/hospital. You'll have to do all the calls!

    Mind you, 2 decades ago Division 1 and Division 2 Gomen servants CANNOT claim for overtime!

    There are lots of meanness some have to suffer in silent because the Gomen Civil service was/is mean and lousy but it never tried to remedy the sh*t. The sh*t now runneth over! And it can't handle it properly with all nincomp**p honchos that populates the entire hierarchy.



    ~wits0~

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 3.08pm aka ~wits0~

    The situation has actually improved somewhat but the benefits favor those in higher positions.

    By the time the GST is enforced, the situation will be worse!

    And then it will be raining s**t!!!

  1. says:

    Anonymous "The situation has actually improved somewhat but the benefits favor those in higher positions."

    When CPM MahaKutty headed the first major salary revision in circa '79, in the Cabinet Report this was exactly what happened. The higher ups got the greatest quantum increase! So there has actually been a precedent in history.

    ~wits0~

  1. says:

    Very Sad THE LOYAL WIFE

    There was a man who had worked all of his life, had saved all of his money, and was a real miser when it came to his money.

    Just before he died, he said to his wife, 'When I die, I want you to take all my money and put it in the casket with me. I want to take my money to the 'after-life' with me.'

    And so he got his wife to promise him with all of her heart that when he died, she would put all of the money in the casket with him.

    Well, he died. He was stretched out in the casket, his wife was sitting there in black, and her friend was sitting next to her. When they finished the ceremony, just before the undertakers got ready to close the casket, the wife said, 'Wait, just a minute!'

    She had a box with her, she came over with the box and put it in the casket.

    Then the undertakers locked the casket down, and they rolled it away.

    Her friend said, 'I know you weren't fool enough to put all that money in there in the casket
    with your husband!'

    The loyal wife replied, 'Listen, I can't go back on my word. I promised him that I was going
    to put that money in that casket with him.'

    'You mean to tell me you put that money in the casket with him!?'

    'I sure did,' said the wife. 'I got all the money together, put it into my account and wrote him a cheque. If he can cash it, he can spend it.'

    Moral of the story : Women are cleverer than Men!

  1. says:

    QQ I have seen couples who had been passionately in love suffering from discord soon after their wedding.

    I have seen women who had married men with money or status but who fought constantly with their husbands.

  1. says:

    Tak Malu Perak Exco, Hamidah Osman : A woman cannot become a Menteri Besar.

    Is she being honest?

  1. says:

    Selvi Being a woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing with men.

  1. says:

    JournoDownUnder Aah...MWS, you have a Tony Abbott in your midst. And this CUEPACS is a union, right? Aren't unions supposed to look after the welfare of its members? Things are not much better on this side of the globe either. It's very rare to find a company that gives paid maternity leave. Serious!
    Sorry for the long absence, mate. WInter Olympics occupied me. It was good to be immersed in something peaceful and apolitical for a while. Now that it's almost over, tomorrow is last day, I'm dreading going back to the real world...sigh....

  1. says:

    Anonymous Most men need two women in their lives - a secretary to take everything down and a wife to pick everything up.

  1. says:

    Anonymous Who is Datuk Shahrizat anyway????

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Very Sad

    Thanks so much for sharing that story! Most appropriate at this point of time!

    Without sounding sexist, I believe men and women are equally intelligent but may excel in different areas :-).

    Take care and have a lovely weekend.

    Cheers!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear QQ

    Very true. It is not easy to find a partner and even more difficult to stay married if the couple are unable to see eye to eye.

    The most important element is the willingness to be the right spouse, instead of finding the right spouse.

    May you be blessed with love, happiness and fulfilment always.

    Have a lovely weekend.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Tak Malu

    :-) She could be speaking with a broken heart or making a statement of fact or both! :-)

    What do you think :-)?

    Thanks for stopping by to share your thoughts. Do take care and have a blessed weekend. Keep in touch!

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Selvi

    I agree!!! If I had a choice, I would want to be a man!!

    Serious!!

    Take care and have a lovely weekend. Always uplifting to hear from you.

    God bless you and yours.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear JournoDownUnder

    How I have missed you!!! Lovely to hear from you again. I sort of put two and two together that it had to be the Winter Olympics that kept you away from cyberspace :-) ever since your absence during the tennis season.

    You are so right re the Tony Abbot case :-).

    What? Some companies down under don't offer maternity leave??? What are MPs,feminists and NGOs doing about that? This is news to me. Thanks for the alert.

    Do take care. Here's wishing you a lovely weekend. Keep in touch!

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 5.13 pm

    That is a witty comment :-) and very true too, I must say.

    Thanks for sharing...take care and do keep in touch!

    Enjoy the weekend!

    Cheers!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 5.24 p.m.

    :-) She is Minister for Women, Family and Community Development. She was appointed as Senator in order to qualify to be appointed as a Minister )according to Wikipedia).

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Anonymous Dear Anon @ 5.24 p.m.

    Sharizat? Well, she's a minister through the back door, so enough said.

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear ~wits0~

    I was trying to figure out if it happened during his reign but had to rush to take my boy to piano class and do my groceries. Thanks for the info.


    Thanks a bunch!

    Cheers!

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 5.54pm

    Thanks! I did not feel comfortable saying it :-) but thanks for filling in the gap :-). Appreciate your cooperation and support.

    Take care and do keep in touch.

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Anonymous Dear sis,

    We must speak the truth even if it hurts, right? Nothing to feel uncomfortable saying it loh...

    - Anon @ 5.54pm

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 5.54pm

    Indeed! It is just that it might seem I had ulterior motives :-) if you know what I mean, thus the reference to Wikipedia :-). Safer also!!!

    Because of circumstances and the prevailing, we have to be careful and vigilant while striking out.

    Thanks for reading and for your support! I appreciate your encouragement. God bless you!

    Cheers

  1. says:

    Anonymous The greater the resistance waves meet, the stronger they become.

    Have a nice evening

  1. says:

    Unknown Dear Anon @ 7.12 pm

    God bless you for your encouraging and inspiring comment.

    Take care and God bless you.

    Enjoy the evening with your loved ones.

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